The Online Dating Relationship Journey Part – II
To better reconnect to yourself, you have to acknowledge the weak aspects of your character and personality such as ego, the inability to control projecting a larger than life image of yourself and things like that. Besides you will often see people describing in great details as to what has actually happened rather than saying what really contributed to them. Things like who has done what to who is of little importance here because that doesn’t propel the relationship ahead. On the other hand, they not only create anger and frustrations but also induce tension and anxiety, all of which kill the charm and charisma of nurturing a love relationship online. Instead the right step forward here will be to accept your faults, diagnose the problems and then troubleshoot them.
Please remember bad relationships do not just come out of the blue. They are in fact are caused, strengthened and nurtured before they begin to trouble you seriously. So whether you have caused them intentionally or otherwise, assume responsibility for them and then address them properly to get rid of them. Some people falsely believe that they will click in adult online dating if they just follow the dating protocols to the letter. This notion is not entirely wrong but you have to remember that each individual is dynamic and so someone may react negatively to something which will induce the other to respond positively.
For instance, there are preconceived notions, absolute falsehoods and dating myths which can seriously jeopardize your chances of finding love or fun in the virtual world. Add to this the amazing self-sabotaging behavior that forces an otherwise good relationship flounder like a badly captained ship on a stormy sea.
So it is essential that you should be able to identify these destructive behaviors with a sincere will to demolish them. Your chances of succeeding in adult online dating will depend on all these. Once you gain the insight into the problems, it can now be used to understand as to what you want or expect from each other. Please do not hesitate to spell out what all you expected from each other and what all went wrong along the way. Have the courage to acknowledge your own faults and omissions and that will make the other person open up like you never thought would have been possible.
Continued to Part – III
